OUR STORY

In pursuit of narrative integration

There is deep meaning in your life. Learn to see it with new eyes.

Our Story is a project that combines psychological research with theological insight to promote personal well-being through the power of story. Whether you are attempting to better understand your past, discerning major decisions for your future, seeking deeper connection with those around you, or desiring to see more clearly how God is active in your day-to-day life, there is something for you here. Our Story seeks to help you look honestly at the stories that shape you, and live more intentionally as co-authors with the Author of Life.

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With all wisdom and insight he has made known to us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure that he set forth in Christ, as a plan for the fullness of time, to gather up all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth.
Ephesians 1:8–10

Ways to take part

Three Formats

Our Story is offered in three different settings, so it can meet a large group, a small cohort, or a single person where they are.

One day · Parish-based · Large group

Retreat

A day-long retreat for a parish or community. Teaching, guided reflection, prayer, and time in small circles that gives a large group a shared introduction to seeing our lives as stories within God’s, and the difference that can make. In-person only and requires a host location.

8 sessions · 5–8 people · 90 minutes

Small Groups

Dive deeper with a consistent, closed small group for eight sessions – meeting either weekly or every other week. Each gathering combines a short teaching, individual reflection, personal story sharing, and prayer. In-person, virtual, and hybrid options available.

One-on-one · Fully customizable

Individual

Dedicated one-on-one sessions built around your particular life, stories, questions, concerns, and goals. There is no set number of sessions. The length, pace, and focus are all fully customizable. In-person, virtual, and hybrid options available.

Who it's for

Our Story is designed for older teens and adults who want to explore the impact of the narrative lens, the potential for healing, growth, and connection that stories create, and pursue a mission-driven life aimed at joy.

Parishes & ministries

A ready-to-run retreat or workshop for older teens, young adults, parish-based groups, and campus ministry. Your creativity in adjusting the timing and format as needed is welcome.

Small groups

A great follow-up to a Bible study, prayer group, OCIA cohort, or other formative experience that leaves a small group of people looking for more together.

Individuals

A dedicated way to look deeply at your own life and experience, at your own pace, and with ample time for personal reflection.

The content

What it's all about

Drawing upon research and techniques from Positive Psychology, cognitive neuroscience, and Narrative Therapy, in concert with the wisdom of theologians like Hans Urs von Balthasar and Dietrich von Hildebrand, each format of Our Story moves through the same four themes:

  1. I

    Why Stories Matter

    We make sense of our lives through stories. This first theme explores how narrative shapes what we notice, how we understand ourselves, and what we believe is possible.

  2. II

    Your Stories

    The stories you carry from your family, your early relationships, your life today, and how you envision your future. We look at them honestly, with attention to both the wounds and the blessings.

  3. III

    His Story

    God’s unfolding drama of creation including the history of our origin, fall, redemption, and glory as a people. Seen within this larger drama, our own stories take on new dimensions of meaning as we respond to His invitation to embrace an active role.

  4. IV

    Living Our Story

    Putting it all together with a practical look at applying these principles as we aim to live from this perspective with heightened awareness and creative agency.

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Our Story is launching now! Take advantage of special discounted pricing through January 2027. Connect with me below to learn more. Tell me a little about yourself and which format interests you, and I’ll be in touch soon.

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